Dear Here to Hear you,
A co-worker keeps making passes at me. I hate it but I find I can mostly ignore it. What really bothers me is that I have not yet told me husband and i don't like hiding it from him. I am afraid that if I do he will either make me quit or go beat the crap out of the guy. What would you suggest?
Office Girl
Dear Office Girl,
Let me answer your question with another question. Which is more important to you, your job or your relationship with your husband? Hopefully it would not come down to you having to quit your job if you tell your husband. If it did would that be worse than hurting your husband's trust?
If you tell your husband be honest with him. Tell him what you feared in confiding in him. Maybe between the two of you you can come up with a way to beat the office flirt (without the fists) keep your job and maintain your open relationship with one another.
I applaud you for your desire to not hide things from your husband. This seems to be a dying characteristic in marriages but it is a key ingredient in making it work.
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